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"Det man ikke vet,

 har man ikke vondt av" sier de,

 

 

Men alt jeg ville var å vite.

- C.C





Har dere noen gang tenkt på at vi går glipp av så mye i løpet av livet? Det er så mange steder man ikke får sett, og da tenker jeg ikke på land eller byer som feks Paris, St.Tropez og New York men steder som ingen har sett før eller kanskje føler noe spesielt til. Det kan være rundt et hjørne i en bortgjemt liten by i et land ingen vanligvis reiser til, eller en øde vakker strand som ingen har sett. Vi går glipp av så mye. Kanskje du egentlig har en soulmate på andre siden av jordkloden, som er prikk lik deg selv som du hadde elsket høyere enn alle men som du aldri får møtt? Alt du har drømt om men som du aldri kanskje får opplevd? Jeg blir så kvalm jeg. Jeg vil reise langt vekk, sette meg på et tog og bare la det ta meg til hvor som helst. Se hvor jeg ender. Jeg vil rulle rundt i gjørmen i Afrika mens jeg leker med de fattige barna mens jeg ser at de smiler og ler, jeg vil ri på kameler i ørknen, jeg vil gå langs en øde strand med kritthvit sand mellom tærne og lyden av bølger som skvulper i ørene, jeg vil dykke med haier og oppleve spenning og frykt, jeg vil bruke opp alle pengene mine på klær i New York, jeg vil oppleve jul i Washington, jeg vil drikke vin i Paris med en god venninne og skravle til langt på natt, jeg vil drikke kaffe i en liten bortgjemt kafè i England, jeg vil på roadtrip med venner og drømme meg bort, se, føle og rett og slett leve. Jeg vil ikke bare sitte her i lille Moss, i sengen min på Refsnes. Jeg vil ut å oppleve, lukte og smake nye ting, føle, elske, hate og alt på en gang. Jeg føler livet blir så bortkastet av å bare sitte her. Jeg vil bare vekk. Jeg har, kanskje ikke like mye nå lengre -  men jeg har hvertfall, som mange tenåringer, en eller annen gang hatt tanker om at jeg bare vil sovne inn, at jeg aldri vil se noe eller noen igjen, men så kommer tanken at - nei, for hvor bortkastet har ikke livet mitt vært da? Hva slags mening har livet hatt da? Absolutt ingen. Jeg skal oppleve mer, jeg skal få oppfylt drømmer, og jeg skal gjøre noe så jeg blir husket for noe skikkelig bra. Jeg vil få mennesker til å smile, få en bedre hverdag. Få mennesker som føler seg som et null til å føle seg bra nok. Få barna i fattige land til å kunne gå på skole, få rent vann og ha et fint hjem å komme hjem til sånn som vi i Norge har det. Når jeg har fått til det, da gir livet mitt mening. Da kan jeg takke for meg og forlate jorda. 



Trengte å få noen positive ord strømmende gjennom hodet mitt nå, og tenkte kanskje noen av mine flotte lesere trengte det samme så her har dere noen quotes! Husk at dere alle er fantastiske, på deres egen måte. ♥














As you read this, think. Think about every single word, every single sentence that you read. You're young. You need to live. You need to realize that being mad at someone is silly. People make mistakes, we're human, it's okey. Forgive and forget. Don't lose a friend because something small happend, forgive them. Forget about their mistakes, you'd want the same from them if you did it. If you like someone, tell them. You don't know what could happen to them. It's sad to think about, but it's true. People die every day, every minute, every second. You never know. Have fun, dance in public, sing at the top of your lungs, don't hold in a laugh, and don't hold back a smile. Dress how you want, not how others want you to. Be free, don't let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do. Say what's on your mind, tell everyone your thoughts, let out your opinion, it should never go unheard. Live your life as much as you can because you never know what could happen. You just don't know.



Because believe me, darling, I know that smile. I know what it feels like to reply "I'm good." when someone asks you how you are. But not because you are good, because you're just so used to saying it, that you don't even think about anymore. You don't even realize the question that's being asked. Your response is just so rehearsed, that it comes out with no effort. Just like that beautiful smile, darling. It breaks your heart to lie to those you love. It's so hard to tell them everything is perfectly fine. But it's even harder to tell them the truth. You don't want to be in such a vulnerable state. You can't handle that kind of pity. But you gotta believe me when i tell you, darling, you're not alone. I'm here for you. I understand that reflection you see every night. The one you don't even recognize anymore. That same smile that you've been wearing for years to fool everyone into thinking you're fine, has finally fooled you. Just for that split second, when you look in the mirror and see that stranger smiling back at you, you believe it. You actually think you just might be happy. But then, your heart starts to hurt, your body starts to ache, your tears starts to flood, and all the memories come back. You're not okay. You're not happy. You're dying from the inside out, and nobody even bothers to notice. You feel like you're alone and everyone has given up on you. But you have to believe me, you're not alone, darling. I'm here. I'm right here holding your hand. I'm rubbing your back as you cry on my shoulder. Even if you can't see me, or hear me, I'm here. And i'm not going anywhere. Because I know what it feels like to want to just throw it all away and say, "fuck it." I know what it feels like to think "I'm not worth it. Nobody cares about me, and everyone leavs. So it's my turn. I'm going to be the one to leave this time, and leave them hurting and alone." But darling, you are so incredibly worth it. Your life matters to me. Even if we've never talked, or if I don't even know your name. I'm here for you. And I care about you. I don't want you to go anywhere. I know it's tough, darling, but hang in there. Do it for me. Do it for everyone who's ever told you they loved you. I'm so sorry you have to wear this fake smile every day, but stay strong, darling. Stay strong and hold on to the mystery of tomorrow. ♥











You who are reading this. Have you had a bad day? Felt that you're not loved? Not good enough? That nobody cared about you? Well, you are loved, you are good enough, and sombody cares. You are a beautiful person, and one day you'll realize that. Realize that you are better than you expected, better than those "popular" girls expected. You've felt ugly? Fat? Too skinny? You are perfect, just the way you are. As long as you believe you're pretty from the inside and out, other people will too. People will see you as the happy, wonderful and fantastic girl that believes in herself. So, if you're having a bad day, always remember that you are gorgeous and you shouldn't have to change yourself for somebody else. You are beautiful in every single way. 



PS: Er sikkert noen skrivefeil, men skrev innlegget i full fart! 

Him. You guys randomly start talking one day. He compliments you and tells you you're pretty and cute. He asks you about your past relationship and you ask him about his. When you tell him you've been hurt multiple times, he tells you that those guys are all jerks and stupid for letting a girl like you go. You then share tell him some more stories about your past and he tells you his. He starts flirting with you and you start flirting back. Then he asks for your number and you give it to him right away. The next day he texts you and tells you good morning and tells you to have a good day. Soon talking to him becomes a part of your daily routine and you wait for him every day to text you. Whenever you receive something from him, you start smiling and your day instantly becomes better. He texts you daily asking how your day went. You talk to him all night and he always asks if you are tired and if you want to go to bed. The night conversations you have with him are always the best and the deepest. You sleep when he sleeps and he sleeps when you sleep. Now he wants to meet up and hang out with you. When you meet up with him, you feel even more chemistry with him and you feel butterflies in your stomach every time you talk to him. Now you tell your friends about what an amazing guy he is and you are interested in him. Soon he confesses that he is interested in you and you tell him that the feeling is mutual. You go on more dates with him and he starts giving you nicknames and calling you baby. You feel like you're the happiest girl alive and the feeling is so strong between you guys. One day, he suddenly stop texting you first. When you guys talk now, it's only because you hit him up first. Things changed and you don't understand what unexpectedly happend. He stops putting effort talking to you and doesen't show that he still wants to be with you. You become extremely clingy and you don't want another girl in the picture. You can't help wondering what went wrong. You ask him if anything is wrong and he tells you that everything is fine. Then you start thinking he's mad at you for something you did, but he assures you that you need to relax and everything's okay. He tells you that he's just been busy. So you wait for a while and nothing is changing. He's still "busy" all the time and he dosen't even try to talk to you. Now every time you talk to him it becomes an argument. And you get scared that you are being annoying by hitting him up first, so you stop talking to him. Months pass, and you don't talk to him at all. You never know what happend from his point of view. Because of him, every day and night you're hurt and upset. You don't know what went wrong in the relationship between you two. Your friends tell you to forget him and that he doesen't deserve someone like you. But you can't seem to listen to them, you're allready too attached to him. You miss the person he used to be and you see that he has a new girl in his life. He's calling her cute names and tell her everything he used to tell you. He calls her baby and tells her he thinks she's gorgeous. He tells her everything you've heard before. He seems completely fine without you and now he has someone else to talk and text every day and night. You refuse to believe that he played you, but it's true. You're still hurt and he has already moved on. You're still sad and everything you do reminds you of him. You can't stop thinking about him and you cry every night thinking about him. You still secretly hope that one day he will start talking to you again and you guys will pick up where you last left off but you also know that it will never ever happen. You compare every guy you now meet with him. He's already forgotten about you but you're still having a hard time letting go. Sound familliar?



We're teenagers. We're still learning. Shit happens. We cheat, we lie, we criticize, we fight over stupid things. We fall in love and end up getting hurt. We bitch, bitch, BITCH. We bitch about bitches being bitches. We party till dawn, we drink till we pass out. We hate people for no reason, we call each other names. We stay up late having deep conversations, or stay up late just to think. We go out and have a kick ass time with our friends and those will be the memories. One day that's going to all pass. You can waste your time focusing on all the bad things, but one day you're gonna wish you were still a teenager. So make the most of what you have now, forget all the bullshit and drama and LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH A SEXY SMILE ON YOUR FACE. 



i love you. jeg elsker deg. jag älskar dig. jeg elsker dig. ti amo. je t'aime. ich liebe dich. maite zaitut. ek is lief vir jou. i dua. Ես սիրում եմ քեզ. Обичам те. Ma armastan sind. eu te amo. aku cinta kau. Is breá liom tú. ég elska þig. 私はあなたを愛して. 我爱你. mwen renmen ou. volim te. i amare. Es mīlu tevi. ik hou van jou. kocham cię. eu te amo. Te iubesc. milujem ťa. jaz te ljubim. Mahal kita. miluji tě. seni seviyorum. szeretlek. i dy garu di. 



You who are reading this. Have you had a bad day? Felt that you're not loved? Not good enough? That nobody cared about you? Well, you are loved, you are good enough, and sombody cares. You are a beautiful person, and one day you'll realize that. Realize that you are better than you expected, better than those "popular" girls expected. You've felt ugly? Fat? Too skinny? You are perfect, just the way you are. As long as you believe you're pretty from the inside and out, other people will too. People will see you as the happy, wonderful and fantastic girl that believes in herself. So, if you're having a bad day, always remember that you are gorgeous and you shouldn't have to change yourself for somebody else. You are beautiful in every single way. 

 



Uansett om du er tynn, overvektig, høy, lav, har små pupper, store pupper, er blondine, brunette.. Ja, alt som får deg til å føle deg dårlig. Det som får deg til å ville være en annen. Det er en stemme inne i hodet ditt som sier "jeg skulle ønske.." og som prøver å fortelle deg at du vil være annerledes. Overvinn den stemmen! Si til deg selv at du er perfekt sånn som du er! Du er et menneske, sånn som alle andre men du er likevel spesiell og det er ingen andre som er akkurat sånn som deg. 



Hey Beautiful, I bet you just scrolled past a bunch of girls you wish you looked like, boys you wished you had, clothes you want to wear. Well, guess what? Stop worrying about those girls, boys and clothes. You're so amazing and beautiful, you don't even know. You probably don't believe me, but I promise. You'll find someone who likes you for you. Your clothes are already perfectly fine. Go look in the mirror, take pictures, go for a walk, show of your beautiful face. Take time to realize how amazing your friends are and spend time with them. Heart broken? Listen to some depressing music and cry, cry so much that you could fill a pool full and swim so when you're finally finished crying you'll be happy, I promise. Go to school with the biggest smile on your face. Smile at strangers, you could make their whole entire day without you even knowing it. Make a cake with your bestfriend then shove in eachothers faces unexpectedly. Play music really loud and dance and sing at the top of your lungs. Eat whatever you want, eat a lot of it and I promise you'll still look beautiful the next day. Live your life, don't worry about what others think, do what makes you happy.  



This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember; some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well they come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them, actually pretty much all of them, are going to break your heart. But you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always always always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing & there's so much to smile about.


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Hva syns dere egentlig om slike innlegg? Få høre deres mening. 



I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn how to let go. Things go wrong, so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.


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Hei! Jeg heter Caroline, er 20 år og kommer fra den lille byen Moss. Jeg blogger for det meste om hverdagen min, men også litt om mote, sminke og om mine tanker og meninger.

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